Dear Malcolm & Lyudmila,
Thank you for your help. I wrote to several ladies from your site and in January 2008 I decided to visit just one special lady. It took several days for us to get to know each other, but after that I knew she was the one. We write and talk to each other often and she will be coming to Australia for my birthday in April. I will visit her again in Ukraine this year and we may also meet in Asia, as I travel for work. We are planning to get a fianc visa before the end of the year. There is a saying that says good things are worth fighting for. Sure it can be emotionally draining and cost money, but I can guarantee that it is worth it. This Christmas I will be with someone with whom I share mutual love. The visa may take some time, but whether I am in Ukraine or Australia, I will not be alone this Christmas.
For others planning to do the same, I found Malcolm and Lyudmila to be very helpful and approachable. In particular, their knowledge of the right places to look for a woman, correct age group, obtaining a visa and knowing that I had some support while I was travelling was a great help. Olya is 36 and I am 45. She has one son 13 and I have two older girls. She is like any other woman; charming, complex and loving. But the way she responds to me and the connection we feel is something to die for. If you are a kind and well spoken person, there is no reason why the same could not happen to you. I wish everyone all the best!
Stefan (Melbourne, Australia) & Olya (Zaporozhye, Ukraine), January, 2008